Dana Roba, make-up artist \u0219i mam\u0103 a dou\u0103 feti\u021be, trece printr-un nou moment dificil. Dup\u0103 o lupt\u0103 grea \u00een instan\u021b\u0103, \u00een care a reu\u0219it s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 custodia copiilor \u0219i, aparent, divor\u021bul de so\u021bul ei, Daniel Balaciu \u2013 b\u0103rbatul care a agresat-o brutal \u0219i a fost condamnat pentru faptele sale \u2013 speran\u021bele ei de a \u00eenchide definitiv acest capitol au fost din nou spulberate.<\/p>\n
Din spatele gratiilor, Daniel Balaciu a transmis c\u0103 nu este dispus s\u0103 accepte hot\u0103r\u00e2rea judec\u0103torilor \u0219i inten\u021bioneaz\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 apel, bloc\u00e2nd astfel procesul de divor\u021b p\u00e2n\u0103 la o nou\u0103 decizie definitiv\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u201eAm c\u00e2\u0219tigat tot, \u0219i divor\u021bul, \u0219i custodia. Dar fiindc\u0103 procesele au fost conexate \u2013 custodia \u0219i divor\u021bul fiind \u00eentr-un singur dosar, ca un \u0219ampon 2 \u00een 1 \u2013 dac\u0103 el face apel, totul se am\u00e2n\u0103. Eu nu pot fi declarat\u0103 oficial divor\u021bat\u0103. Sunt 99% divor\u021bat\u0103, dar acel 1% m\u0103 \u021bine \u00een loc din cauza apelului la custodie\u201d, a explicat Dana Roba \u00een cadrul emisiunii\u00a0\u201eOnline Story by Cornelia Ionescu\u201d.<\/p>\n
Daniel Balaciu, \u00eencarcerat dup\u0103 ce a atacat-o violent pe Dana Roba, a transmis prin intermediul fostei sale soacre c\u0103 inten\u021bioneaz\u0103 s\u0103 conteste decizia instan\u021bei. Se pare c\u0103 fratele s\u0103u din Germania ar urma s\u0103-i trimit\u0103 banii necesari pentru a demara procedura de apel.<\/p>\n
Pentru Dana, acest gest nu este doar un obstacol legal, ci o continuare a unui comportament abuziv \u0219i manipulator, care afecteaz\u0103 nu doar via\u021ba ei, ci \u0219i pe cea a feti\u021belor.<\/p>\n
\u201eMi-a spus fosta soacr\u0103 la telefon c\u0103 fratele lui Daniel \u00eei va da bani s\u0103 fac\u0103 apel pentru c\u0103 \u2018are dreptul la copii\u2019. Nu, nu are. Eu sunt mama lor, sunt \u00een via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i el nu va mai sta niciodat\u0103 la mas\u0103 cu copiii mei. A avut o \u0219ans\u0103, dar a pierdut-o. Nu mai accept ca el s\u0103 m\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 legat\u0103 \u00een trecut\u201d, a declarat Dana cu fermitate.<\/p>\n
\u00cen ciuda traumelor suferite, Dana Roba a fost, p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, deschis\u0103 s\u0103 p\u0103streze leg\u0103tura fetelor cu bunicii paterni. Le-a dus \u00een vizit\u0103, le-a \u00eencurajat s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 conectate cu familia tat\u0103lui lor. \u00cens\u0103 dup\u0103 anun\u021bul apelului, aceast\u0103 atitudine se schimb\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u201eAm fost bun\u0103 \u0219i le-am dus pe fete \u0219i la fo\u0219tii socri, inclusiv s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103. Dar le-am spus clar: dac\u0103 Daniel face apel, nu le mai duc. Jur\u0103m\u00e2nt. Nu mai accept s\u0103 fiu bun\u0103 cu cineva care vrea s\u0103 \u00eemi fac\u0103 r\u0103u. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103-i vezi, respec\u021bi regula: un weekend da, unul nu, la domiciliul mamei. Dac\u0103 nu, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u \u2013 nu m\u0103 afecteaz\u0103 cu nimic\u201d, a ad\u0103ugat Dana, vizibil hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i protejeze lini\u0219tea \u0219i copiii.<\/p>\n
Pentru Dana Roba, refuzul lui Daniel Balaciu de a accepta decizia instan\u021bei nu este un act de p\u0103rinte grijuliu, ci o tentativ\u0103 de a o \u021bine captiv\u0103 \u00een trauma trecutului. Fiecare ac\u021biune legal\u0103 a fostului ei partener este resim\u021bit\u0103 ca un obstacol \u00een calea vindec\u0103rii.<\/p>\n
\u201eEl nu face nimic \u00een pu\u0219c\u0103rie. Ce altceva are de f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eemi fac\u0103 mie r\u0103u? Dac\u0103 nu a putut s\u0103 m\u0103 omoare, acum \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi fac\u0103 via\u021ba grea. Dar eu sunt puternic\u0103 \u0219i nu voi ceda. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 o s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tig \u0219i apelul, dar e dureros c\u0103 trebuie iar s\u0103 trec prin instan\u021b\u0103, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 mai a\u0219tept \u00eenc\u0103 pu\u021bin p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 fiu liber\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat\u201d, a m\u0103rturisit Dana cu emo\u021bie, dar \u0219i cu determinare.<\/p>\n
Cazul Danei Roba a devenit emblematic pentru lupta femeilor care ies din rela\u021bii abuzive \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i refac\u0103 via\u021ba, chiar \u0219i \u00een fa\u021ba piedicilor constante puse de agresori. \u00cen ciuda traumelor \u0219i a pericolului prin care a trecut, Dana a ales s\u0103 mearg\u0103 mai departe, s\u0103-\u0219i creasc\u0103 fetele cu demnitate \u0219i s\u0103 fie vocea femeilor care nu au curajul s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n
Finalizarea divor\u021bului ar trebui s\u0103 fie o etap\u0103 fireasc\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 reconstruc\u021bie, \u00eens\u0103 realitatea juridic\u0103 \u0219i manipul\u0103rile fostului partener continu\u0103 s\u0103 o \u021bin\u0103 ancorat\u0103 \u00eentr-o lupt\u0103 nedreapt\u0103.<\/p>\n
Dana Roba a c\u00e2\u0219tigat \u00een instan\u021b\u0103, dar adev\u0103rata eliberare nu a venit \u00eenc\u0103. Apelul lui Daniel Balaciu poate \u00eent\u00e2rzia actul oficial de divor\u021b \u0219i \u00eei prelunge\u0219te suferin\u021ba. \u00cen ciuda acestor obstacole, Dana r\u0103m\u00e2ne o voce ferm\u0103 pentru dreptate, pentru protec\u021bia copiilor s\u0103i \u0219i pentru toate femeile care trec prin experien\u021be similare.<\/p>\n
\u201eSunt 99% divor\u021bat\u0103, dar acel 1% e cel mai greu\u201d, a spus ea \u2013 o m\u0103rturie dureroas\u0103 despre c\u00e2t de greu se \u00eencheie, uneori, un co\u0219mar care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 se termine demult.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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