Carmen \u0218erban, una dintre cele mai cunoscute soliste de muzic\u0103 de petrecere din Rom\u00e2nia, a fost mereu discret\u0103 c\u00e2nd a venit vorba despre via\u021ba ei personal\u0103. Recent \u00eens\u0103, artista a ales s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 deschis despre motivele pentru care, la 52 de ani, nu este c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 \u0219i nu are copii, \u00een ciuda succesului profesional \u0219i al notoriet\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n
De ce a ales s\u0103 nu se c\u0103s\u0103toreasc\u0103Pentru Carmen \u0218erban, prioritatea principal\u0103 a fost \u00eentotdeauna cariera. Artista sus\u021bine c\u0103 nu a refuzat ideea unei rela\u021bii, \u00eens\u0103 a evitat c\u0103s\u0103toria din dorin\u021ba de a-\u0219i proteja independen\u021ba \u0219i echilibrul profesional.<\/p>\n
\u201eNu fac ce spune lumea. Dac\u0103 m\u0103 m\u0103rit doar ca s\u0103 fiu \u00een r\u00e2nd cu lumea, nu voi fi fericit\u0103. Eu \u00eemi creez fericirea. Dac\u0103 eu sunt bine cu mine, atrag oameni ca mine. C\u0103s\u0103toria poate aduce \u0219i presiune. Nu vreau s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc cu cineva care nu e cu sufletul l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine.\u201d<\/p>\n
C\u00e2nt\u0103rea\u021ba consider\u0103 c\u0103 multe dintre cuplurile din industrie \u00ee\u0219i men\u021bin doar aparen\u021bele fericite, iar realitatea este adesea diferit\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u201eAm v\u0103zut prea multe exemple \u00een care lucrurile arat\u0103 bine la suprafa\u021b\u0103, dar \u00een interior nu sunt deloc a\u0219a. Eu nu m\u0103 mint singur\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ce a\u0219tept\u0103ri are de la un partenerCarmen \u0218erban afirm\u0103 c\u0103 este deschis\u0103 c\u0103tre o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 pune accent pe sinceritate, loialitate \u0219i sprijin reciproc. Infidelitatea este o limit\u0103 clar\u0103 pentru ea:<\/p>\n
\u201eVreau pe cineva care s\u0103 fie l\u00e2ng\u0103 mine \u0219i c\u00e2nd sunt bine, \u0219i c\u00e2nd trec prin momente dificile. Nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 actele, ci omul. Dac\u0103 \u00eemi e al\u0103turi c\u00e2nd sunt s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd sunt bolnav\u0103, atunci e omul potrivit.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00cen ciuda rezervelor legate de c\u0103s\u0103torie, artista recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 ar fi dispus\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 pasul dac\u0103 va \u00eent\u00e2lni un partener pentru care s\u0103 simt\u0103 o iubire autentic\u0103.<\/p>\n
Despre rela\u021biile anterioare \u0219i desp\u0103r\u021biri\u00cen 2022, Carmen \u0218erban a anun\u021bat desp\u0103r\u021birea de partenerul cu care a avut o rela\u021bie de 6 ani. A explicat c\u0103 leg\u0103tura devenise toxic\u0103 pentru am\u00e2ndoi, iar decizia de separare a fost comun\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u201eNu cred \u00een c\u0103s\u0103toria impus\u0103 sau f\u0103cut\u0103 din interes. Rela\u021bia s-a terminat pentru c\u0103 deveniser\u0103m toxici. Ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit \u00een termeni buni \u0219i am decis s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem prieteni.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00cen prezent, artista a l\u0103sat de \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 se afl\u0103 \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie, dar nu ia \u00een calcul, cel pu\u021bin momentan, oficializarea acesteia.<\/p>\n
\u201eNu trebuie s\u0103 ai acte ca s\u0103 fii fericit. Multe c\u0103s\u0103torii se termin\u0103 rapid, iar eu nu am muncit o via\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eempart ce am cu cineva care doar se preface c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219te.\u201d<\/p>\n
A ales cariera \u00een locul maternit\u0103\u021biiCarmen \u0218erban nu are copii, o decizie asumat\u0103, determinat\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 nu s-a reg\u0103sit \u00een rolul de mam\u0103, de\u0219i iube\u0219te copiii.<\/p>\n
\u201eVia\u021ba nu a fost at\u00e2t de generoas\u0103 cu mine pe plan personal. Nu m-am v\u0103zut mam\u0103, de\u0219i copiii m\u0103 ador\u0103 la concerte. A existat un zvon c\u0103 a\u0219 avea o fiic\u0103, dar este, de fapt, nepo\u021bica mea.\u201d<\/p>\n
Un portret al independen\u021bei \u0219i maturit\u0103\u021bii asumateCarmen \u0218erban prefer\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 autentic, f\u0103r\u0103 a face compromisuri dictate de a\u0219tept\u0103rile sociale. Cu un \u201escaner\u201d personal mai bine calibrat, spune c\u0103 ast\u0103zi e mai atent\u0103 la alegerile din via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i la oamenii din jur.<\/p>\n
\u201eSunt bine a\u0219a cum sunt. \u00cemi doresc pe cineva sincer, dar nu m\u0103 mai aventurez. Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat multe din trecut.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Carmen \u0218erban, una dintre cele mai cunoscute soliste de muzic\u0103 de petrecere din Rom\u00e2nia, a fost mereu discret\u0103 c\u00e2nd a venit vorba despre via\u021ba ei personal\u0103. Recent \u00eens\u0103, artista a ales s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 deschis despre motivele pentru care, la 52 de ani, nu este c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 \u0219i nu are copii, \u00een ciuda succesului profesional \u0219i al … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":830,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-831","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/831","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=831"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/831\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":832,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/831\/revisions\/832"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/830"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=831"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=831"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dobrezrodla.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=831"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}